За мен: Spent 25 years working for corporate America only to be fired at will and treated like time given to the company meant nothing.Has left me searching for what my life needs to be so it will begin to mean something again. personal life has been hard lessons. I have Treated all the sweet ones badly, and spellbound by all the bad ones. the jezebel spirit has had me. Took devine help to escape its grasp. in the process it has jaded my thoughts of what society has become. what we have all been slowly moulded into.self awareness is key. open-minded and judgement free as I am only learning as I live this life. I am hung like a light switch. and get pussy with personality and my willingness to do for others. if my kindness is taken for weakness just know my only weakness comes from a capable eager enthusiastic mouth. And feeling desired and appreciated also gets me wrapped around the finger. but if I don't feel like my sacrifices are reciprocated and something I want or need in my life is given by the other in un-spoken, never asked to, and simply done and given cause its right and known. then what's the point? I wont be taken for granted. but I do grant chances to all. being decent shouldnt be hard. and being good shouldn't be filled with regret.if it is. you are choosing a bad person to be good to and time to move on if they don't adjust their behavior to meet common ground. Communication . love and respect. pleasure giving equals pleasure . insatiable but love trying to be satisfied. everyone deserves to be loved . desired and understood. mean spirited comments will be replied to accordingly or simply deleted and not acknowledged. I've never met a hater I wasn't better than. and any man who feels the need to shame and talk down about another man's penis... says way more about the naysaying troll than it does about whom he is speaking down to. So humble yourselves all u naysayers and maybe try to share some vids of your most private moments for all to see. You may then not be so quick to be a jerky commentator and realize how its not as easy as you think.Basically, if you got nothing nice to say then at least think before you say them, and after thought you still feel compelled to leave elementary comments, then be prepared for some light to be shined upon your dark ways with a reply or a delete.